At about 10-ish this morning, i rec'd an email from Rabbit toh asking our gang of friends to go read Lao da's blog. He mentioned briefly that he's kinda down but did not give much details. I assumed it was prob something to do with his results cos i heard frm rabbit that he din do too well.
Lo and behold, when i read his entries on his blog site, i was surprised to see a side of Lao da which i never knew. Bui Alan calls his entries poetic! But more importantly, he told us a sad story of how his gf had left him. He seemed really depressed and it was something that i was quite expecting. he had always been a person who took things in his stride. I'd known him for 10 over years and i have never seen him cry. It shocked me to know that he actually cried for the women who left him.
Having being through a few relationships myself, i can totally relate to the hurt that he's experiencing. Friends who read, pls, don't ever tell someone who had just been dumped that everything's gonna be alright. Its not, ok! For goodness sake, someone whom we have held dear to our hearts has decide to exit from our lives forever. How can it be alright! It may sound cliche but honestly, the only thing that we can do is to leave them alone. Give them some space and time to sort things out! Be there for them if they need us, that's bout it.
Lao da, let us know when u r done getting over ure princess yah.
"Pleasure only starts once the worm has got into the fruit, to become delightful happiness must be tainted with poison" - Georges Bataille
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)

No comments:
Post a Comment